Saturday, November 26, 2016

blackademics: sofdee: kimreesesdaughter: kimreesesdaughter: eyeamindiibleu: kimreesesdaughter: ...

blackademics:

sofdee:

kimreesesdaughter:

kimreesesdaughter:

eyeamindiibleu:

kimreesesdaughter:

I need the “I’m a proud crazy girlfriend’ trend to die before 2017. That shit is not cute. 

And it’s abusive.

Abusive as hell but people do not take men being abused seriously or they accept it as the “norm.” Nahh. I’m going to teach my sons 2 or three times, your partner slashing your tires is abuse and property damage. Shorty constantly needing to go through your phone (or even at all) is abuse. Someone hitting you when they’re upset is abuse. Someone threatening to call the police on you or self harm cause you going out is abuse. Someone making light of killing you over some small petty shit is abuse.

Also, those memes that be celebrating that shit with girls holding knives and guns is not cool. Lying about being on birth control is not cool. Withholding a child from seeing his father because y'all didn’t work out is not cool. Using child support as a revenge tactic is not cool.
Being an obsessive, non trusting, let me see your phone, who is that bitch?, hitting your partner girlfriend is not cool. If I’m holding men accountable for abusive behavior, I’m holding women to the same standard.

it’s also important to add that when someone makes you feel insecure is also abuse. they want to keep you vulnerable so you won’t leave them and they want you to be putty in their hands so they can do whatever they please

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